Oklahoma: connecting with each other and the divine to move forward


Images of the half-mile wide EF-5 tornado that went through portions of Oklahoma on Monday and the trail of destruction it left behind can be disturbing to watch. And, as in the case of other recent tragedies, such as hurricane Sandy, the Newtown massacre and the Boston Marathon bombing, our hearts yearn for everyone involved to find comfort and peace, along with any needed provisions.

Perhaps we recognize familiar sentiments from these words of the Old Testament prophet Jeremiah when he wrote in the book of Lamentations¹ about devastation:

    • “Oh, oh, oh…”
    • “How empty the city, once teeming with people.”
    • “…I weep, weep buckets of tears…”

As the news unfolds on our televisions, the internet and everywhere we look, it’s worth noting that viewing large quantities of graphic images of a traumatic event increases fear and stress. And, these emotions have been found to have a negative impact on health. They may also make it harder to recover in cases like this.

For example, research² has found that:

    • Adults who lost family or friends in the 1980 Mount St. Helens tragedy reported that watching news coverage of the tragedy made it harder to recover;
    • Watching more bomb-related news from the 1995 Oklahoma City bombing resulted in more Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder symptoms for children;
    • Watching 12 or more hours of anniversary news coverage of the 9/11 attack in 2001 was “associated with a 3.4-fold increased risk of new-onset probable PTSD”.

From news reports, it seems apparent that the people affected in Oklahoma have gained a stronger connection with one another, as well as with people who have gone through similar experiences. Churches in nearby Oklahoma City opened their doors to residents of Moore, OK needing shelter.

Spirituality includes feeling connected, either with a higher power or with one another. Feeling a connection with a higher power – the divine – has been found beneficial for health outcomes. Feeling connection, caring and love also brings comfort.

President Barack Obama told the Oklahoma people, “You will not travel that path [to recovery] alone. Your country will travel it with you, fueled by our faith in the Almighty and our faith in one another.”

It appears that Jeremiah, too, eventually felt a comforting connection with the divine, as seen in these later writings³ of his:

    • “I called out your name, O God… You said, ‘It’s going to be all right’.”
    • “I’ll turn things around… I’ll compassionately come in and rebuild homes…”
    • “Things will get better…”
    • “I’ve never quit loving you and never will.”
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According to an LA Times report, Oklahoma Governor Mary Fallin said, “We will rebuild and we will regain our strength.” And they’ll have help. For example, KSHB-TV in Kansas City, Missouri reported that the Church of the Resurrection in Leawood, Kansas expects to send at least 1,000 volunteers to help with reconstruction.

Things will get better!

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References
¹  Lamentations 1:1,16
²  U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs National Center for PTSD (posttraumatic stress disorder). “Television watching and the risk of incident probable posttraumatic stress disorder: a prospective evaluation.” J Nerv Ment Dis. 2007 Jan;195(1):41-7. Department of Emergency Medicine, NYU School of Medicine, New York, New York 10016, USA. Bernstein KT, Ahern J, Tracy M, Boscarino JA, Vlahov D, Galea S.
³  Lamentations 3:55-57, Jeremiah 30:18-19, Jeremiah 31:3
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The Power of Hope in Healing

A guest post written by Ingrid Peschke, a Christian Science practitioner and a legislative advocate for spiritual healing in Massachusetts. You can also read this post on her weekly syndicated blog, “Health Conscious” at MetroWest Daily News.

Ingrid Peschke (Photo courtesy of Ingrid Peschke)

Ingrid Peschke (Photo courtesy of Ingrid Peschke)

Hope.

That’s the word  I came away with this past weekend after I took part in a panel discussion on the topic of “Spirit and Healing in the 21st Century” at the Open Spirit Center in Framingham. The motto for the center: “A place of hope, health, and harmony” to address the deeper spiritual yearnings of the wider community.

I joined four local spiritual leaders on the panel, along with two keynote speakers: a clinical psychologist with a specialization in health psychology, and a cancer survivor.

A repeating theme was that spiritual practice is incredibly important, if not vital, to healing.Nancy Gaulin, the psychologist, opened the 3-hour event, speaking from her twelve years of experience in the greater Boston area. She said she spends more time now asking her patients about their spirituality and exploring their beliefs, their morals and values, and even discussing their family upbringing–all contributing factors to health and well-being.

These are some of the words Dr. Gaulin’s patients have used to describe their spiritual experience: humility, serenity, peace, inner calm, gratitude, forgiveness, grace, optimism, direction/purpose in life, compassion, connection to self and others, hope.

It’s no secret that some of the necessary lifestyle changes that help with achieving well-being are more exercise, eating better and less, avoiding drugs and alcohol, etc. But Dr. Gaulin also shared some helpful practices that stem from “best thinking practices” vs. “best physical practices”: demonstrate empathy, actively listen, be non-judgmental, be aware, remain curious, be patient, teach forgiveness, reflect back, hold hope.

These habits, which begin with disciplining each thought that occurs to oneself, end up having a positive effect on physical well-being as well.

It’s hard to fathom a person facing illness being told that they should have no hope of getting better–because hope is the doorway that aids in expecting wholeness around the corner. I think of hope as coming from a deep spiritual well within us all that reminds us of our innate goodness, and eventually deepens into confidence and trust in the possibility of good as a permanent feature in our lives.

Hope prompts a person to see more then what they presently see. Scripture says it is our connection to God: “Lead me by your truth and teach me, for you are the God who saves me. All day long I put my hope in you” (Psalms 25: 5). Hippocrates echoed this sentiment when he said that “The natural healing force within each of us is the greatest force for getting well.”

There are well-documented studies on the scientific and physiological effects of hope, some of which are referenced in Jerome Groopman’s book “The Anatomy of Hope,” where he writes: “Researchers are learning that a change in mind-set has the power  to alter neurochemistry.”

Groopman says belief and expectation are the key elements of hope and can even block pain by “releasing the brain’s endorphins and enkephalins, mimicking the effects of morphine. In some cases, hope can also have important effects on fundamental physiological processes like respiration, circulation and motor function.”

During the panel discussion, I shared the book that has been both a spiritual and health guide for me, “Science and Health with Key to the Scriptures,” authored by Mary Baker Eddy. Eddy believed in the importance of not suppressing a patient’s hope in the healing process.  She wrote, “Physicians, whom the sick employ in their helplessness, should be models of virtue. They should be wise spiritual guides to health and hope.”

Hope isn’t a pill. It doesn’t cost anything and it comes with no negative side-effects. How often do you hear that in today’s health care system?

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When Mothers Offer Spirituality It’s Good For Health

(I'm front middle and that's Mom right behind me)

(I’m front middle and that’s Mom right behind me)

My mother – through her example and her actions – instilled in me a recognition of the value of spirituality as it relates both to health and to everyday life. She didn’t push spirituality at others, she quietly lived it – in patience, caring, tolerance, and in a daily practice of Scripture reading and prayer.

I remember her caring for me and praying for me when I was sick. And I remember one summer, with us four kids out of school and home each day, how she gave us weekly assignments of questions for which we had to find answers in the Bible. We were also expected to attend Sunday School year round. To this day, I value her making spirituality a priority in our lives. It has afforded me better mental and physical health, greater compassion for others, and a life filled with purpose.

Thanks Mom!

Here are excerpts from Proverbs chapter 31 in the poetic language of the KJV Bible that form a lovely tribute to mothers:

Who can find a virtuous woman?
She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household…
She stretcheth out her hand to the poor;
Yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.
Strength and honour are her clothing;
She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
She looketh well to the ways of her household…
Her children arise up, and call her blessed;
…a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.

Happy Mother’s Day!

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Appreciating Nurses and Their Recognition of Spirituality

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The Michigan Legislature passed a resolution recognizing National Nurses Week –  May 6-12 – here in Michigan. It points out that the “146,488 nurses in Michigan comprise the largest group of health care professionals in the state.” And it calls on the residents of Michigan to honor our nurses and appreciate their efforts to improve the health of our state.

I’d especially like to honor the recognition by most nurses of the value of spirituality and spiritual care in nursing.

Here are some examples in which this is evident:

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The power of love to improve mental health

(©Glowimages/Stock photo)Mental health can be improved and maintained by treating the whole person and by helping the patient feel connected with – and loved by – others and the divine.

Treating the whole person

In 2007 Malkia Newman was appointed to the board of the Oakland County Community Mental Health Authority and she now chairs this board. Speaking at last month’s Public Services Committee meeting, she shared her insights from being the only person ever to be treated by the program and, then, to become its board chair. “Having received the treatment, having received the education, because education and treatment go hand in hand – you can’t just throw medicine at a problem, you have to treat the whole person.”

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Prayer in a Mercedes

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Today is National Day of Prayer (see Presidential Proclamation — National Day of Prayer, 2013). Here’s a guest post written by Cynthia P. Barnett, media spokesperson and legislative contact for Christian Science in North Carolina, who shares her thoughts on the power of prayer.

It’s a little word, really. One that often gets overlooked in the drama of an exciting story as it’s told or recorded. The word is a soft one to say; it’s a meek word. But more than most, it’s a mighty word.

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Mental health treatments that go beyond a drug-based approach

In a brief video, Eric Bashor in the Christian Science Press Room shares how some mental health treatments today go beyond a drug-based approach.

Bashor cites a Washington Post article by Tony Lobl entitled, World Alzheimer’s Day: The healing depths of togetherness. The article includes this guidance from Professor John Swinton of the University of Aberdeen: “…good dementia care has to do with enabling the persons to remain in relationship with God and with one another despite the ravages of the condition.”

If you can’t play the video below, you can view it by clicking here:
Health News Briefing: Trends in mental health treatments

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Improving our ideals to achieve excellence in health care

How can changing our ideals bring excellence to health care?

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Russ Gerber takes up this question in a recent in-depth article in The Washington Times entitled, “First, health care excellenceapparently inspired by a question asked at a recent talk sponsored by the Harvard Medical School. Gerber draws some interesting lessons from placebos and the Pony Express in his examination of the benefits of improving our ideals.

What is an ideal? Dictionaries, including Webster’s Dictionary, draw this picture of the word “ideal” for us:

  • (noun) a standard of perfection, beauty, or excellence;
  • (noun) a principle to be aimed at.
  • (adjective) existing as a mental image;
  • (adjective) relating to or constituting mental images, ideas, or conceptions.

What we expect and accept matters. Better ideals help us move from ordinary to excellence.

Gerber writes, “Having a higher thought model, an ideal of excellence in all aspects of health care, is the first step toward improving today’s health care system and our own health practices.

To read Gerber’s article, click this link: First, health care excellence

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Dealing With Grief

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Consider these thought-provoking questions about grief:

    • Is grief a mental illness?
    • Do drugs help or hinder the healing of grief?
    • What brings comfort to the grief caused by loss and pain?

Anna Bowness-Park, of Victoria, British Columbia, Canada, answers these questions in a tender, heart-warming article in which she shares how she found freedom from intense (or “raw”, as she puts it) grief after the passing of a beloved uncle. This article was first published in The Times Colonist on October 17, 2012, but its message seems especially timely in light of recent events.

I heartily recommend her article, still available on her Blog entitled, Health Connection: Should we have a medical prescription for grief?

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Followup: A Runner Prays

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My previous post was a guest post by friend and colleague Stormy Becker Falso in Georgia about her insights as a runner, having run her first marathon earlier this year. That guest piece was published shortly before the tragic events at the Boston Marathon. With the events of that day still pulling at our heartstrings, I thought you might enjoy seeing how this runner prays.

Falso’s latest article in the Marietta Patch: A Runner Prays.

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